This is what I want to say to her:
I won't be asking for the rings again. If you don't want me to have them or didn't think that my own judgement was good enough, you shouldn't have said yes. I wanted my wedding rings to be special, to really mean something. But I'll get other rings somewhere else. This hurt me, by the way. I don't think that was your intention but it's how I feel. This is my life and I'm not going to let it become some kind of power struggle with you. I will get married when Jeff and I are ready, not when you say it's okay.
And I'd like to add a big fuck you asshole but I know that's just because I'm hurting right now. Like, a lot.
